The main reason is that men already in power made the decisions that affected the media up until recent times. And this still may be true today.
Historically, men and not women have held leadership positions in almost every field mentioned here. The movie industry, music industry, and even publishing companies have all been run by men. I guess it was natural for them to elect men as representatives in these fields, and I understand why this would happen. I don't blame these men because they did not necessarily exclude women on purpose, but simply thought men were more fitting of whichever role they were looking to fill.
Personally I am not too offended by this book title, but I also don't find it appealing. It seems sort of gimmicky to me and its trying to be too 'cool'. I feel like the author just wants to grab attention with this somewhat shocking but not too shocking title, and it just isn't something that I think I would buy.
I could definitely understand why someone would be offended by this. Some people have experienced hard times and name calling throughout their lives for whatever reasons, and probably would not want to purchase a book that reminds them of these difficulties that they have endured.
As for the 'skinny' aspect--- it is what a lot of people want but I also think that many women are learning to love their bodies even if it isn't the typical 'perfect' body. Nowadays I feel like people emphasize health over thinness, so this book might be a little late with that.
One example of this is Laurie Lennard, former wife of comedian and producer Larry David. Laurie Lennard is one of many celebrity wives that spends her time campaigning for the environment. She is known to be among the loudest environmental activists in the US, and is one of many women who support similar causes.
I also think that many women are involved in lobbying for legal activism regarding the environment.
I think it also depends on the child. When I was little, i refused to wear anything that wasn't pink or pretty. As soon as I had a sense of myself, I constantly wanted to dress myself in 'pretty things'.
Maybe this was the result of the fact that I was a second child and received many hand-me-downs from my brother. A lot of the toys that I played with were probably considered 'boy toys', so when I could get something girly, I lept at it.
I even remember my first day of school. I started first grade at age 5, and it was a private school. I wasn't allowed to wear my favorite pink shoes because it was a Jewish school with a strict dress code. I wouldn't stop crying, so they finally let me wear my crazy pink shoes.
I think that children need a sense of independence about their tastes. Its ok to guide them or joke with them a little about it like (like if a boy wants to wear his mom's high heels), but i don't think its ok to restrain their tastes.
May 21, 2008 6:17 PM
To Jason's Post:
As a woman, I've never had a problem with men that can put in their honest input about my dress matching my shoes.
I'm not sure why some men or women might have a problem with this. Perhaps they aren't as comfortable in their own skin as you are?
May 27, 2008 10:17 AM